http://www.parakhi.com/blogs/2011/12/02/petty-and-unprofessional

Petty and Unprofessional

@ Nepalimato,

Of course, no matter what, you've to love them unconditionally, these women are your family members.

We're talking ab't..
                  Those women whenever  you have a chance YOU TWIST YOUR NECK TO SEE HER BACK.
                  Those women who makes lots of Guy friends and YOU START TO TALK NONSENSE ABOUT THEM
                  Those women who wants to live life differently in Society and YOU DISRESPECT THEM NOT BEING SAME AS  YOU
                  Those women who writes on Sajha about their opinions and YOU RESPONSE THEM THINKING YOU'RE SMART.

So Where is the Respect!

@Sexi in Sari

Really, r u serious. This is like tht nepali saying " Birod ko lagi matra BIrod garya".

1. Those women whenever  you have a chance YOU TWIST YOUR NECK TO SEE HER BACK.

Not all men do tht but yes they do and there is nthing wrong with tht. thts is just admiration of beauty. and ladies do the same thing when they see a hot, rich guy.

2.Those women who makes lots of Guy friends and YOU START TO TALK NONSENSE ABOUT THEM

everything has limit. now if u r in a relationship n spend ur time with other guys/gal it is a problem. i think in todays age every guy/gal has friends with good understandin of limits.

3.Those women who wants to live life differently in Society and YOU DISRESPECT THEM NOT BEING SAME AS  YOU

live a different life like what lika a prostitute than ofcourse u nt gonna get respect. even a guy who cant live up a life of society standard is nt respected. i beleive there are so many women in this world who has live life differently and has earn respect more than men. So please stop complaining about it.

4.Those women who writes on Sajha about their opinions and YOU RESPONSE THEM THINKING YOU'RE SMART.
See thts the main problem here. writing opinion is different issue than forcing and generalinzing n demoralizing the whole men kind is different. RESPECT PPL U WILL GET RESPECT . 

Behoove me,

Why did it behoove you to not act like a monkey this time around? Are you Nepali men in sajha evolving at a faster rate than the rest of male-kind, you think?

Aaaiya-ya, atha-tha, saila-dai!

Rasika Didi, this sajha thread is feeling like a dohari that we village girls used to sing in the evenings around the fire with the men of our village. Ki kaso ho? Mo pani palo ae-pachi gaidiu?

But Didi, these are Americanized men who have long forgotten their Nepali ways, their witty ways and their sense of humour. What would these men know about dohori and having a sense of humour like all those Nepali men did from back in our village?

Ki kaso ho, didi?

behoove_me ji,

So you are admitting that you don't know anything? After your mother gave birth to you, she didn't explain anything to you? Wow, that explains a lot about you and the way you men in sajha have been acting, actually. My suspicions have been confirmed.

Rasika didi,
Hajur le bhaneko sabai kura thyakka milyo la.

 behoove,
mahila ko bhesh ma purush parlaan. ;o)

Good one Juggy!

Mridula bahini,

Do you see how evolved our Nepali men are? They know what American men don't know--the power of milk from their mother. What would these whities know about the power of milk? That is why they are constantly working on their tan--because they did not get enough milk in their bodies at a young age.
But, our Nepali men know the power of milk. Milk--it does the body good. Mother's milk does the body even more good.

Good boy, Behoove me. At least your mother gave you something. Unfortunately, whatever she gave you, did not seem to instill any true sense of self-respect and confidence in you. Perhaps your mother's milk lacked some nutrients?

Nepali men. They have so many insecurities, doubts, identity issues. Sigh. Even in their 40's and 50's, they go to their mother and ask her to open her blouse so that these men may lower their mouth on her teats. Kathai......They are still, in their old age, trying to find security in her bossom that they could not find any where else.

The whole world kicks Nepali men around from one place to another. What else can give them a sense of security and a place of belonging than the breasts of their mother? No?

You don't disagree with me, do you Behoove me?

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Keti haru ko paalo sakyo. Aba dohari ma keta haruko palo.

 bla bla bla n bla again.
add bla here, add bla there and bla bla bla.
and more bla bla bla nepali man suck. bla bla bla
blaa bla bla
there more blaa bla bla bla
add bra here. bla bla blaa
blaa more. I was born in test tube. Even sperm was imported from bideshi. Nepali man is not my father, nor my grand father. bla bla bla
and more bla. 
bla bla blaa blaa. :D
Ok now nepali men's turn. 

LOL Juggy. Your point is well taken. Good point. But I am still waiting for Behoove me's response.

Ha-re Rasika Didi,

Maile ta bhane ko nai thiye ni. Eeni haru paa-int ra boot layera hidne sahar ko keta haru le hamro gaunle dohari ke bujh-the ra?

Rasika Didi, hajur barta over-janne bhaera hamro Behoove me dai risairanu bhaeko chha. Aba bhaju le hamilai galli garnu huncha.

Sense of humour bhaneko paanch paisa ko chhaina ho, yo America baseka Nepali keta haruko. Ek dui dollar ko talab ke paeko thiye, aafno Nepali pan sabai guma-e-chhan. Ha-re.

Rasika didi, khoi, hamro Behoove me dai pani 'hai hai' garera nindra aeko acting garna thalnu bhayo. Dohari ta haami keti haru le suru nai nabhaikana jitem jasto chha.

Behoove me Dai, Rakshas Dai, Rethink Dai,

Hamro Jitauri ke ho? 

म्रिदुला जि,

खै त अहिलेसम्म तपाईंको महिला मोर्चाको एक जना पनि सदस्य आएनन् नि त मेरो घरमा?? म त् झन ढाका टोपी ढल्क्याएर तल्बार कट जुँगा टल्काएर तपाईंको महिला सदस्यको आगमन हुने आशा लिएर कुरेको कुरै छु । तपाईंबाट कतै धोका हुने त होइन? मलाई धोका दिनु भयो भने त साझाका मेरा मित्रहरुलाई सहय् हुने छैन नि फेरी!! यदी कतै धोका भएर साझाका बोकाहरु सबै यहाँ माथि खनिए भने म जवाफदेही हुने छैन नि फेरी !!

पुनश्च: रसिका कान्छी र म्रिदुला जिलाई सानो सुझाव, यदी गन्ध पचाउन सक्नुहुन्न भने बोकाहरुको हूलमा नछिर्नु होला, बोकाहरु ठस्ठस्ती गनाउँछन् 

धन्यवाद! 

Mridula, oi Mridula, what is Geology Tiger saying, bhaneko? I mean, hamro Mahila Morcha ko representative aile samma Geology Tiger ko ghar ma ga-eko chhaina bhaneko? This is a big lapse in our organization. You were supposed to be in charge of that. What happened?

I mean, we need to send more of our representatives to the house of enlightened and evolved men like Geology Tiger. Focus on the solution, Mridula, not on the problem.

The solution is men like Geology Tiger. Don't worry about the rest of these sahariya Boka types. They smell bad because Kathmandu nagarpalika's trash system is so horrible. Why is the trash pick up system so bad, you ask? Yes, yes, the same old problem--another male screwing up Nepal's infrastructure. But anyway, I don't want to focus on the problem. I want to focus on the solution.

Like I was saying, the solution, is men like Geology Tiger. He is a lot more enlightened and evolved than these Sahariya Boka types--you know, like Nas and his Bokas. Those are the kinds of men we want to avoid. We want to focus on Geology Tiger and others like him from the local Nepali villages. See? He wants to give donations and help Mahila Morcha out. Would a Kathmandu Sahariya ever do that?

Never, Mridula, Never!

Nepali Gaun Ghar daju bhai haru ko jaya hos!

I read this article in the thread and I was beginning to think it was a great piece. Then, I read the comments below it. I cannot fathom how an article on lack of professionalism leads to a debate on gender issues. Regardless,I have seen this happen too often in Sajha threads. People going off the topic from their threads.

Men need to acknowledge that there are some men who look down on women. Disrespect them for whatever non sensical reason they have. I have seen it happen too often. The keyword is "some" here. You cannot generalize every man. Not that my rambling will closure to anyone.

Oi Rasika Kanchhi,

Maiya ko barta jibro chalirako chha ni. Hami keta haru sanga saanchai dohori khelne bichar chha? Ghar ma rundai janu parla ho.

Just think about it some more before you decide. No one is forcing you to play, ok?

Maybe you and Mridula should just stay home and play with your dolls. Don't play dohori with the big boys. Big boys play rough. They don't cry when they get hurt. They dust themselves off, and they play some more. Are you really ready to play dohari with the big boys?

Have you seen the dohori army that Geology Tiger is amassing?  
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=94536

Do you see who all are in that army? Look at the names in that thread again, and think about it well and good. Because once the games start, it will not end. So talk it over between Mridula and yourself some more. There is still time. We guys might laugh at you a little. But not too much. We have come to expect little girls to run home and play with their dolls, when we come to the field to play soccer.

Your loving Dai,
Babal Khate

P.S
By the way, oh great bidwan Rasika, Kanchhi is spelled 'k-a-n-c-h-h-i.' Not the way you spelled. Aaphno naam spell garna audaina guff nai barta ke.

LOL Babal Khate,

In the same way that San dai totally called your bluff, in this thread, I call your bluff as well...
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=94254#845504

So yeah, invite all of your soccer players and your dohori army:
 Jumanu Rai: Nepali Rooney
Jagjit shrestha: NEpali Carlos
Sagar thapa: Nepali Terry
Bharat Khwas: not Messi but moving ball like Messi

Mridula and I will meet all of them whether it is in Sano gaucharan or Tundikhel. Isn't that right Mridula?
You boys don't know soccer untill you play with us girls.

Rasika Kanchhi-- Nepali Mia Hamm
Mridula -- Nepali Marta Vieira da Silva

We may be wearing our leotards and scrungies to keep our pony tails in place, but when our kleats start kicking, hope you boys won't be crying too hard because you lost to a bunch of little "doll playing" girls.

We'll teach you men things about soccer that you didn't even know existed!

So just let me know if you want us to be at Sano Gaucharan or Tundikhel.

Rasika Kanchhi

P.S Don't forget to tell us what time to be there ok?