Hello all,
Need serious suggestions. I got married a few months back in Nepal. It was arranged type of thing. Everything wa alright until I met my ex a week before wedding. She persisted me to meet her for the last time and I did so. She called me two days before my wedding but I asked her not to call me or text and told her I was getting married. Story doesn't end there. She asked me to forgive her, give her a chance and cancel the wedding. Instead of canceling the wedding, I asked her to run away and to get married in a court, but she denied. She just wanted me to run away but I couldn't trust her; the reason was straight. She left me when we had a small fight over her ex being her best friend and on her facbook; I tried to save the relation for 5 long months; and finally got married.

When I returned back home from wedding, I realized I lost feelings for my wife. It went so bad, guys. I was like I made a huge mistake. I couldn't even sleep well with my wife while I was back in Nepal. Since I left Nepal, I haven't spoken with my wife. That's not the only thing, I haven't been able to sleep, work or do anything. I have been punishing myself for not giving another chance to my ex and for ruining my wife's life.

I just got an email from my employer that I was terminated due to poor performance. I have nothing now. Lost family because they forced me so much for marriage even I wasn't ready. Lost wife since I haven't spoken with her since I married her. Lost that ex bitch. Lost health and wealth. Almost everything.

Dear brothers, sisters and friends on sajha, I need your advices on divorce. Is divorce ethically or morally right? If I ask my wife to divorce me, would it be considered as I ruined her life? Would I stick with her even I don feel anything for her? Is it okay to seek divorce in Nepal if marriages don't work? Would I have to regret all my life for just divorcing her? Please guys, throw in some fruitful suggestions and some hopes to stay alive. I am being frustrated and sucidal thoughts are coming accross my mind.

Grow the f**k up and talk to your wife! Your ex is a goner. You didn't ruin her life. Let bygones be bygones. Instead of dwelling on your past, look to make a better future and the correct way of doing that is making up with your wife.

looks like you ex is too hot and your present wife is not!
in that case, you are totally screwed. consider taking your wife to beautician and give her compkete make over. new underwears as well.
drink or smoke and get real horney all the time. dont let love even come. think of your ex (while) and bang your totally make up filled wife. bang bang and more bang

in few months you'll start loving your new wife and forget that ex.
"ज ब पस्यो, तब माया बस्यो"

Yo mula tehi Pharsi ta hoina ? Malai ta ho jasto lagcha. Bro le fariya lagairakheko ta chaina ? Man Up. U made the decision and now dont run away from it.
By the way u can still bang ur ex if u want. But dont let ur wife kno or dont u think abt leaving her. By the look of it, ur ex looks like a perfect item for a mistress.

simple (circuit ko bhasa ma), when you do think of your ex.

@bairagi,
Ko pharsi? Thank you for your advice.
@nayapidi
Please don't make fun of me. Imagine wha would have done in my situation?

Let me paste someone's quote " Moron and Stupid people dwell on Past Life and ignore  present." 

First, I would never be in your situation.

Second, you quoted that you don't make false promises and yet you did. What do you expect? You deserved what you asked for. Karma is a bitch remember.

This guy has no guts to forget his ex and move on. He is selfish prick just thinking of his life. If you were so concerned, you should have never got married. "Panimaruwa", do you have what it takes to be man under your pants?

Sorry for harsh words, but your attitude of ruining someone else's life is just sickening me. If your wife is ok with it, i am sorry for all my words.

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Bigrekomanche,
1. As everyone said, you need to get your shit together. This is not the end.
2. You need to begin a fresh chapter with your wife. Do not regret and do not look back.
3. Try something different. Go away on a honeymoon just you and your wife. Spend some quality time. Get to know her better and let her know you better. Be open and again DO NOT LOOK BACK.

Ex is not a full stop. It is the end of a paragraph and beginning of a new paragraph. If you keep on pressing backspace, how can you move forward?

Give me a try bro. Good luck!

BE A MAN!! No need to stress out.. just focus on present.. past is past and is done..