America k k na painchha bhnanera aaiyo.
Chokta khana gayeki budi jholma dubera mari bhane jasto bho.
Kam chhaina.....
20 ghanta shcoolma kam garya chha.
Bahir kam garau bhane kam chhaina, kasle khojdinchha, aful khojna gayo kasaile chindaina, ss le bhanchha.
Roommate haru testai chhan.
Aaafna keti lyaka chhan chikera baschhan appartmentma ......
Nepali keti haru pani kati bhalu huna sakeka...aja yo sanga bholi tyo sanga.....
Jati ramra bhaye pani mera jyapulte ganaune roommate sanga hanibaschhan.
Muji bhat pani kahile khana paidiana.....
Afule pakayo arule khaidinchha.....arule pakako afulai rakhididaina....
Manko baha pokhau bhane sabai busy busy bhanchhan kasali bhanau.
Sabaile haso udauchhan.
Schoolko fee tirna nasakera ba lai paisa pathaideu bhanna pani sakdina.
Jagga bandaki rakhya chha nepala....sahu haru pani paisa le le bhanda hun.
Bau haptai pichhe alikati paisa bhaye pathaide na bhanchhan.
mareko juni jasto bhaiyo. Laajai lagchha.
Eso gf banau na ta baha pokna bhane pani paisa nabhaye pachhi jati handsome bhaye pani kehi lachhar pato lagne rahenachha,
Padna pani man lagdaina.khai k garne garne.....
Yesto hudo raichha america. Feri yehi afna frenharu darho kampauchhan.....
Paisa paisa bhanera dikka parchhan........choreko paisale gas, rent sabai uthauchhan....
Muji timema paisa diyena bhane kich kich garera hairan

Mero lag america phapena ...Nepal pani kasari farkane ...
Aba khai yo jiban nai bhagwanlai arpan gardinu parla jasto chha.

Kaamle manchhe saano hundaina. phurtile maanchhe saano hunchha. take positive attitude towards life. give up khaate attitudetry to understand life and its term. you can be hopeful but dont depend on it. Dependable feelings are ruining neplease life. Go to restaurant and wash dishes and you will gradually learn and earn....

Proabably this is one of the best threads in sajha. I really loved reading your thread. I think this is the age where the person like u feel depression. And the environment of usa itself is the catylyst to make you thinks so. As you feel everyone else is enjoying their life with bf/gf. Of course everyone will have the same feeling as you if they have crossed the age of 22, not enjoying life,not having gf/bf and residing here in usa. But i think u will be all right in the long term. You will have the best life. I wish all the best for your success and the emotional happy life too.

Thanks to people for emotional support.
And to people!
I didnt post this for fun. I dont think its funny, its my true story.
I know many people have gone through worse....but still it gives the clear picture of conditions of Nepalese student in US.

where are u located??? khate pate

khate pate
its a gud one ever.. ( a real life story)
where r u living actually????

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After reading all the post I feel like writing something. I am a regular user of sajha but i hardly ever post any threads. This is the best thread that I've ever read. I thank all the Sajhains for their wonderful thought. I respect all the posting on this thread. When I open this thread I expected it to be something funny but it wasn't. While going through posting i was expecting some stupid posting but I wasn't there. I am proud of all the Nepalese who posted over here. There is a time when we all need to be seroius and this thread proved that we are seroius too.

Hey Khatepate, don't worry about anything, everyithing will go fine.

Thank you very much for starting this thread. I hope people in Nepal read this thread so they can be prepared before landing in America.

Hey Khatepate, I read your posting more than 5 times.

Khatepate bro, its better to let the emotion out most of the time. No matter how you did it, with friends or in sajha, just let it out. Trust me for one thing, everyone has gone thru same situation once in life, success doesnt come without sacrifice. Just keep on fighting with problems, thats one kind of fun too. You will realize that later one. I can understand your situation. You are brave to share this here. The best threat in sajha and the coments and advices from friends are awesome. Just dont start looking for excuses thats the worst thing to do, just keep your heart and mind strong you will achieve success sooner than you think. I went through this threat more than 5 times and still kept on reading. Good luck with your life, and our best wishes are always with you. Great Job!

Well, This is a really nice thread. And first off i never had any arguement with anyone over here in sajha. Nor do want to get involved in these situation at all. I try to avoid it at any cost. However this is true, "Even god fear stupid folks." This is the reason i'm writing back. I dont really want to start any personal argument with some cuckoo squawk who want to start blaming other people saying, "Please take no offence...." Listen snatch let me tell you something, If you really felt bad reading my views on this thread and you wanted to abuse me, why do you want to start it as, " please take no offence etc" Just be bold enough and be a squawk like you are and snitch. Why are you expecting so much out of a saha thread i was totally annoyed with this line here;

"While I was reading your analyzation, I felt like I was watching a Nepali movie that lacks charm/emotions/originality/depth/preciseness or anything."

Wait a minute! Did you just happen to be reading some other thread about how to be a best trat? and mistakingly you posted it over here. I dont see any sense or logical explanation as to why would someone compare anyone 's ( unknown) thoughts to something charm, emotion depth..... blah blah.. what the hell is that? Has your head gone through a major surgery where doctors had to keep you in a reaserch cell in order to figure out your disease for a month but to their regret you were just a plain old dolt!? And guess what? you said My critical thinking needs work! I'm here giving smypathy and relating it with other experiences, from where did you bring out critical thinking ? you jughead! ... Well i dont really minds kids cussing at me.. but once it a while i get freaked out... Anyway.. Now i'm not gonna say, " Please dont get offended.... " And if you are still not wise to figure who was this meant for, I'm very proud to annouce the dorks name, "Balbhadra" in other words "powerfull dothead." Thank you for reading this post.

I am from TX.
Many people will thinlk that No job in DALLAS???
But it happens if there is noone there to help.

Yes brothers this fraustration is not only from unemployment but whole lot of various stuff.
Thanks brother.....I appriciate all your postings.

khatepate bhai timile america lai mula ta bhanyau, katai timi pokhara tira ko ta haina? kasailai mula bhanne chalan dherai jaso pokhara tira cha, anyways ma dallas ma ta chaina tara kei chaiyo bhane message garna nabirsa, aani chucchi keti sanga message garne gara, sathi banau na, girlfriend nai huna parcha bhanne kei chaina, je hos eta uti kam khoja feri jo payo tei lai mero ssn chaina bhandai nahinda ni! ek barsa bhaisakyo america aayeko bhane aali paisa bhaye pachi workpermit apply gara, aani dhukka tarika le kam gara!!! la ta good night! kei paryo bhane holla! lol

hey the issue is damn true that i had to register and create a nickname to post my message.
it's simply true khatpate.
the condition could be better over here.Hats off to you for speaking my mind as well.


see even i have been working as makeshift gardener, painter(wall,fence),janitor and what not.you can find these works but not easily.things will definitely change as time pass by.

I believe these all hardships will mould us to a better being.

oh yeah!!! wonderful thread........bro>>>> it is true that life is struggle......u'll see lot's of ups & down,espacially in student life like ours.....i also went through lots of difficult situations when i first came here...i hope your situation will be normal in coming days......yeah!!!!as others said before..stick to your goal, search work on/off campus,read book,do exercise gym/running/swimming...etc.. yoga...hehehehehhe for real....make yr daily routine/schedule...try to make some friends.....but it is true that nepali friends.........>>>>SUCKS....hehehehehhe u know i'm saying ....make some american friends...... and girlfriend...,,,,,,,..it would be AWESOME ............. for real....

see brother , all these voices speaking one language, spitting out one sentiment? we all are on the same boat bro.. just relax and work hard.. take your chances.. look for opportunities.. study hard and get scholorships.. don't hesitate to beg for scholorships..most scholorships are begged than earned... remember that. .tahts the secret.. you have to beg and beg and beg for scholorships.. go talk to your dean, IP advisor, your faculty , your advisor.. and beg, hardcore begging bro.. go like everyday infront of their door and cry and whatnot...seriously, i've seen so many indians and Nepalis getting scholorships like this and later they say they earned it with their good grades.. all b.s .. the secret is begging... so beg... sounds so cheap , but it's the reality.. it will help you a lot... but you need to have good gpa too.. people can help those who can help themselves, remember dat...
and don't hesitate to work off campus.. find your ways.. apply for off campus work authorization..that helps a lot and it's easliy applied.. and most of the time comes in mail as quick as 6 week( for my cousin here in colorado).. so do something.. make changes...

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oh!!! my bad ................................ aarkai paarechha ii3...................well enjoy it..

Yekloyatri, If I really wanted to be critical towards your "postings" I'd make you shit in your pants! Reread my first reply over and again and you'll get a clear cut message and would you mind reading the guy who followed up's post too? What the F$$$ are you on about man?

Khatepate has CLEARLY stated that his intention of posting this thread was not to entertain others but you halfwit made fun of the poor guy's thread by using the same old ghisa pita Nepali formula that's typically used to produce the "superhit nepali chalachitras". Try to think bro about your illogical analysis on Khatepate's posting. Live and let live! Dont just live and make fun of others who want to live as well.

If you think that you're this brainy smart kid in the block then you gotta know that with every bad comes something good too and I said something good about the bad that came out of your buttery fingers. Buttery in the sense that your sole purpose was not just to be a "cool" kid while mocking this poor lad but also to be disrespectful. Katai monthly salary wala job payeko jasto cha ni bro le haina ? Bewakoof mula, hawa taal ma udaune arulai ? Tessai mapain gardai aru ko marma ma noon chardo raicha. huh..


BTW where in Texas are you located at Khatepate bro? Ma milyo bhane yesso kaam khojidinchu. I've got a few good friends out there.

Khatepate bro,

If you're in Dallas, TX and are looking for out of campus job, check www.eknazar.com site and go to Dallas. There are a plenty of jobs available at the site for the DFW metroplex-both part and full time positions. This site is created and maintained by Indian/Pakistan people and they are looking for students/people from Nepal,India, PAK, you know what I mean.

Good Luck to you!

I found this article very much realistic. All I can say is that I had similar life as the opener of this thread revealed . well I have now Green card and six digit job but still life sucks here.I never feel that I ever belong this country. Just work in week days counting the days for weekend.Just I work for Myliving and enjoy the job too but I don't have any emotionational attachement with these Americans. I don't know why?Just at last I would like to say to the opener of this thread "keep going" .I don't know your expectation and academic level but I am sure you will make lot better life compared to these DV folks.Just it is the matter of time.
Gamma

Hello,

To Gammaknife,

I am sorry to divert the topic, but this is for gammaknife. I feel really sorry for you. Having 6 or was it 7 digit salary (did anyone ask for it... btw?) and feeling NOT belonging must be awful for you. Please email me if I can do anything for you.

TO khatpate,

Just the fact that you posted this article (I am assuming most of the posted is true) in your situation and in such a way to attract mostly genuine responses. I am sure you will go places. Please give me your contact number so that I can contact you when I need any help or maybe perhaps humor. :) Keep it up.

Thanks to all who read my posting.