America k k na painchha bhnanera aaiyo.
Chokta khana gayeki budi jholma dubera mari bhane jasto bho.
Kam chhaina.....
20 ghanta shcoolma kam garya chha.
Bahir kam garau bhane kam chhaina, kasle khojdinchha, aful khojna gayo kasaile chindaina, ss le bhanchha.
Roommate haru testai chhan.
Aaafna keti lyaka chhan chikera baschhan appartmentma ......
Nepali keti haru pani kati bhalu huna sakeka...aja yo sanga bholi tyo sanga.....
Jati ramra bhaye pani mera jyapulte ganaune roommate sanga hanibaschhan.
Muji bhat pani kahile khana paidiana.....
Afule pakayo arule khaidinchha.....arule pakako afulai rakhididaina....
Manko baha pokhau bhane sabai busy busy bhanchhan kasali bhanau.
Sabaile haso udauchhan.
Schoolko fee tirna nasakera ba lai paisa pathaideu bhanna pani sakdina.
Jagga bandaki rakhya chha nepala....sahu haru pani paisa le le bhanda hun.
Bau haptai pichhe alikati paisa bhaye pathaide na bhanchhan.
mareko juni jasto bhaiyo. Laajai lagchha.
Eso gf banau na ta baha pokna bhane pani paisa nabhaye pachhi jati handsome bhaye pani kehi lachhar pato lagne rahenachha,
Padna pani man lagdaina.khai k garne garne.....
Yesto hudo raichha america. Feri yehi afna frenharu darho kampauchhan.....
Paisa paisa bhanera dikka parchhan........choreko paisale gas, rent sabai uthauchhan....
Muji timema paisa diyena bhane kich kich garera hairan

Mero lag america phapena ...Nepal pani kasari farkane ...
Aba khai yo jiban nai bhagwanlai arpan gardinu parla jasto chha.

Bhai Khatepate,
Timro samasya ek jana ko matra hoina sabai ko samasya ho. First time aauda maile jati dukha gare teso 10% pani timle gareko rahena chha. It takes time. Nepal ma hunda America ko barema socheko jaso pakkai hudaina....
Je bhaye pani haresh khanu hudaina, Chora manche bhayera janme pachi dukha, struggle garnu nai parchha. Phadai ma dhan deu, dherai Negative kura sochnu hudaina...Room mate le ke gare or sathi haru ke kati g/f banaye bhanera sochne bela chaina timro, jaso taso dukha garera school finish gara and all will be fine. Trust me.
Do not expect too much and at the same time focus on positive side...
Good luck Khatepate bhai...

Next time Thread ma testo language ko use na garnu jun language timi aafo family sanga use garna sakdainou...

dont get frustrated man
everydog has its day

sabaiko halat testai ho

chik** ra chik**** matra thulo kura hoina ra girlfrriend hudaima kohi thulo hudaina,

study hard and look for good jobs,
for now go as you are, needs some patience

yeah man...these blues are the indication that there will be happiness coming to your door soon...thats life afterall.....somebody said..if life gives you lemon..make lemonade out of it..

i hope u have nice them in states my fren...take care

are you an art major?

Best thread ever. This is a true story.

khatepate...tension nalikana football hera sabai thik huncha

Khatepate bhai
i can understand your predicament...........sabai bhanda paile gf bhanne kura na paunjel matra thulo lagne ho.....believe me......if u have gr8 life...everything will come to u on its own....a guy can be a good fren to listen to your frustration.....why need a girl only?????
Try to have a nice time....Read a nice book....or watch a funny movie....chill out....
about a job...go to the indian stores, restaurants etc. and tell then ur problems...try to assure them that u are worth it...even if they dont need to hire, they can try u if they hear u.........try a few places everyday..not all indians are that bad...
chill out....Bidesh bhanne thau yestai ho jaha pani, chahhe america hos ki katar....
good luck with ur life.......
feel free to email me if u need some kinda help that i can do....

Salute from this Veg Tiger!! But don't worry:


Whether it's over a job, a relationship, or money issues, everyone has times when they just don't feel right.

That is when we may notice a sense of soul-starvation, illness, a lack of energy, depression and a list of other negative factors appearing in our life. Simply we start to feel that our life "sucks."

BUT:

Don't get fooled by appearances
Don't waste your energy on things that suck
Don't keep trying to prove yourself
Don't say yes when you mean no

Don't try to fix other people
Don't starve your soul
Don't forget enjot the ride of life!

Thanks everybody for thier encouragement and advise.
Thank you again.
I will try to keep patience and try my best to cope with this.

Well I thought noone would care about post of true feelings. But wow there was some people to show some sympathy.
I had noone nut sajha to express my fraustration.

At last sajha is not always about Muna Shrestha.
Thanks

Amen brother! Great touchy thread. At some point in everyone life they will feel like you are feeling. I simply loved and adored your thread. Bitter truth and your emotion expelled to the puclic.Your unique! You have the courage to express your feelings. Others dont. You will go far in life, just be focus on your studies like the other guy said. I really liked your couple of points;

1. America KK na paucah bhanera aaieyo. ( Oh yeah this is a good one, head it many times and still i love to hear it.)

2."Aaafna keti lyaka chhan chikera baschhan appartmentma ...."( AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!)

3."Jati ramra bhaye pani mera jyapulte ganaune roommate sanga hanibaschhan." ( for a second i thought you have figured out their problem as to why they do it? )

4."Muji bhat pani kahile khana paidiana..... " I love this line. Gosh ! For a second everone had that thought in the back of their mind when they were reading it.

5."Jagga bandaki rakhya chha nepala....sahu haru pani paisa le le bhanda hun.
" ( Happens in most cases and it's a risk they take)

6."Bau haptai pichhe alikati paisa bhaye pathaide na bhanchhan.
" (You brought a very good point. It's a wrong concept that people have. This need to be planted out of their brians. "bidesh bata chora ley paisa pathaucha" Common people not jane bittikai.. dont expect way off the roof)

7."Mero lag america phapena ...Nepal pani kasari farkane ...
" awwwww I'm simply in love with your thread i read it 5 times and i still want to go back and read it again..

Yekloyatri, Please take no offense to what I've got to say to you but your summarization/analyzation has got to be the shittiest one that I've ever come across. While I was reading your analyzation, I felt like I was watching a Nepali movie that lacks charm/emotions/originality/depth/preciseness or anything. That's a shame bro.

I'm not bashing you but your critical thinking needs a lot of work.

BTW, Khatepate bro, I can't really tell you a whole lot to make you feel comfortable but if it helps, the problems related to not getting laid isn't a big issue and besides god has given you hands to do the "self-help" haina ra?
I feel sorry about the financial situation though. It's a pity that a lot of Nepalese don't realize how hard and tough it really is to survive in this country. Where are you located?

I agree with BalBhadra, and i seldom agree with people with my PHD in Science.

WholeSale.

khatepate bhai lai muna ko barema thaha raicha, anyways suna bhai/dai jo bhaye pani....aafu lai euta kura samjhau ki at least timi hatar garera qatar gayenau, ra sansar ko esto thaun ma chau jaha sucess ko kunai simanai chaina, gwache green card hune haru bhanda timi hamee jasto dukkha gari padhne dukkha gari aako manche le ramro sanga life bitaucha pachi, aaileko summer testai bhayo next summer timilai kam chaincha bhane malai bhana wa contact gara timro lagee euta ramro kam guaranteed rakhdinchu ma! hai ta pashupati le timro rakhsya garun....

hey khatepate vai thikai chha aatinupardaina. Sayad hami le nakkali documents banayera embassy lai dhateko huna le sayad Jesus le yesto dukha diyeka holan, but jesus le ahile galat kaam gari rakheka chhan kinaki jesus le hame nepali ho vanera chinenan hola. but i will help you. Timra naya bihani haru aaudai chhan. la ramro saga pada. sabaiko gf hunai parchha vanne pani chhaina. timro age le pani timlai yesto thinkin lyaeko ho. slowlythika hudai janchha.

I wish every Nepali was like Junge dai.. i bet its the only message t\hat is any comforting if at all.. dont lose patience bro, and i say strat going to church and find a nice christain american girl to get married with.. all your problems will be burned into ashes...the american treating you like a vitch will treat you like a jawaii... so good luck

"Jati ramra bhaye pani mera jyapulte ganaune roommate sanga hanibaschhan." The solution is in your statement.

Stop taking showers from now. May be girls love the body odour.

LOL!! this guy is really funny!hahahhahahah

Jungey dai is right mula gwach DV haru bhanda hamfro dukhha,expereince are fruitful in long run. These DV guys will work in DAIRY QUEEN or indian restaurant for life long. I am not trying to discriminate on the basis of work here . what i am trying to say hardly they learn anything american as we school kids do. sports is great culture in america ask them who is tom brady or where is golden state warriors at. Hardly they work their ass off to pay bills and tuition. Hardly they ever interact with americans. And they mention form time to time again that illegals should just go back home. Hey khatepate just enjoy and dont think too much, ek choti graduate gara bro, ani payback time. I loved ur heartfelt postings . Darkest nights are followed by the sunshine,coldest winters are followed by cooler springs. Things move on in life when u do. Just make things happen Peace

I am glad you are struggling. At least, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
No Pain..No Gain... Just hang tide. 90% of the Nepali who coem for higher education goes thru similar situation like yours. Some have even worst life than yours.

Have fun. Look at the positive side. Finish college no matter what. Even those Rich kids whose parents have lot of money and did not finish college are suffering right now. 'cause you cannot apply for any kind of visa unless you have at least a BA degree.

Life is a struggle. Dont look passively. Think of how you can chage life of others too once you finish your degree.

Wish you all the best. At least you are in a right place, no matter what people calls America.